In the dating world, new terms and trends, such as "phubbing," "ghosting," "winter coating," and many others, are continually emerging. Currently, the term "cookie jarring" is gaining popularity on social media.
Cookie jarring describes the practice of simultaneously dating multiple individuals not primarily for meaningful connections, but as a fallback option in case the primary relationship encounters difficulties.
The cookie represents a backup plan or a security blanket, and being 'cookie jarred' typically happens when people are afraid of commitment or rejection.
Inconsistent behaviour
Erratic conduct is evident when your partner remains emotionally distant, hesitates to fully commit, and frequently disappears without explanation, leaving you in the dark about their whereabouts and intentions.
One-sided effort
The relationship is imbalanced, with you consistently taking the initiative to maintain contact and plan get-togethers, while your date remains passive.
Flirting with others
Your partner is either openly or discreetly engaging in flirtatious behaviour and showing romantic interest in others, even when you are with them.
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