When men begin dating, it's not uncommon for them to undergo changes in various aspects of their lives, often influenced by the presence and influence of women. This shift can manifest in various ways, from personal growth and improved communication skills to adopting new perspectives on relationships and life goals.
Now some Gen Z tikTokers have coined a term for the same which is ‘The Girlfriend Effect’ or ‘Girlfriend Air’ which refers to a man upgrading in his style, his physical appearance, skincare routine and fashion according to their girlfriends.
This trend has led to guys sharing before and after pictures and videos on the social media platform with #thegirlfriendeffect.
The trend began after a TikTok user with handle @gabesco shared a post with his transformation video and captioned it as ‘Moral of the story: listen to your girlfriend's suggestions’. The video has garnered 20.5 million views on TikTok.
Women can have a profound impact on men, prompting them to evolve and adapt as they navigate the complexities of dating and relationships, ultimately contributing to their personal development.
However, some people have warned women to not go too far with this trend saying that in a healthy relationship, communication and mutual respect play a crucial role. While women shouldn't act as fashion dictators to their boyfriends, open and honest discussions about clothing choices can be beneficial.
It's not about preaching, but rather fostering understanding and compromise. Just as men should be encouraged to make their own fashion decisions, they should also be open to constructive feedback from their partners. It's an opportunity for personal growth and strengthening the bond, as both individuals learn to appreciate each other's perspectives, leading to a more harmonious and respectful relationship.
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